Marriage, divorce, and family

Why do women stay in difficult marriages in the Maldives?

In Public Policy Lab’s research with women who had been through marital difficulty, asking for help was blocked by shame, by fear of losing housing or children, and by not knowing where help could be found – while social pressure to stay in the marriage was constant.

The exits are blocked before the decision is made

Financial control – partners holding bank cards, salaries, and identity documents, or registering debt in the woman’s name – left many women without the practical means to leave. Isolation from family, friends, and work removed the people who might have helped. Housing worked in both directions: divorce can cause housing insecurity, and housing insecurity traps women in unstable marriages.

Geography narrows the options further

Specialist services are concentrated in Malé. Women in the atolls had fewer routes to take, and in small island communities, seeking help is visible in a way it is not in a city.

Circumstances, not failings

The research’s conclusion is direct about framing: being in a vulnerable situation is often the outcome of circumstances, from familial experiences in childhood to navigating flawed systems as an isolated single parent. The response it calls for is compassion over judgement, and systems that respond when a woman asks for help.

Key facts

  • Help-seeking in the research was blocked by shame, fear of losing housing or children, and limited awareness of where support could be found.
  • Financial control documented included partners holding bank cards, salaries, and identity documents, and debt registered in women’s names.
  • Housing insecurity both results from divorce and traps women in unstable marriages.

Sources

  • The Cycle of Vulnerability for Women and Children Within Family Life (2026) – Public Policy Lab research under the UNICEF Child and Family Well-Being Project

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